Christian Reflection and Prayer

Scripture:

Read: Matthew 5:43-48

But I say to you, love your enemies . . .
do good to those who hate you. —
Matthew 5:44

Reflection:

During the US Civil War, hatred became
entrenched between the North and South.
In one instance, President Abraham Lincoln
was criticized for speaking of benevolent
treatment for the Southern rebels. The critic
reminded Lincoln that there was a war going
on, the Confederates were the enemy, and
they should be destroyed. But Lincoln wisely
responded, “I destroy my enemies when I
make them my friends.”

Lincoln’s comment is insightful. In many ways
it reflects Jesus’ teaching in the Sermon on the
Mount: “I say to you, love your enemies, bless
those who curse you, do good to those who
hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use
you and persecute you, that you may be sons
of your Father in heaven” (Matt. 5:44-45).

We will encounter difficult people in our lives—
some on whom we will need to set limits. But
to give in to the temptation to undermine or hurt
them in any way is not God’s way. Instead, we
should pray for them, show consideration, look
out for their best interests, and emphasize the
positive. This may result in changing an enemy
into a friend.

Not everyone will respond positively to us, but
we can pray and plan for a more harmonious
relationship. What difficult person can you start
befriending?

Prayer:

Lord, some people in my life are difficult to love.
I am tempted not even to try to care. But You
showed love to me even when I was Your enemy.
Please direct me into ways to love with Your
power and grace. It’s hard to hate someone when
you’re doing something good for him.

(Our Daily Bread)